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What did I See from the Guys I Used to Like?

Posted on: April 9, 2017

Last year, someone asked me repeatedly, “What do you like from him?” 

I went blank and I barely gave her any good answer. Having said real love didn’t always need a reason, deep down I knew that I did have reason in every little thing I did. I knew I had it, I just didn’t know what to say. I didn’t know what I should do to make people understand.

As time went by, as I met many guys I never wanted to be with, I started to understand what I liked from the guys I wanted to be with.

I used to like them because they made me feel special. They were never the guy who flirted with many random girls.

I also liked the way they stood for themselves. I always like the guys who know how to make a statement. Not a people pleaser who is too afraid to fight for his thoughts.

And yes, it’s true that I have certain feelings for smart guys. I liked them because they made me learn something new. It makes a man more like a man when they are expert at what they do.

Finally, I used to fall for them because they managed to make me fall for them. The little things they did just worked well to me. 

There I said it… the reasons why I liked the guys I liked. Why didn’t I tell these reasons earlier? Because sometimes, I need to lose something before I understand how previous it was. 

Sounds stupid? I know. And maybe I was. But at least, now I learn something.

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We can’t control whatever life throws at us, but we definitely can control our reaction toward anything that can possibly happen to us.
It’s our decision whether or not we set ourselves free from miseries.
It’s our action that makes our life either colorful or plain boring.
It’s our behavior that leads us to feel merry or lonely.
And it’s certainly our own choices that bring us happiness in life.
Life is too short to be lonely, unhappy, and to be less proud of who we are.
Make the most of every day in your life, be happy with the little and the big things, make your life not only worth living, but also worth to celebrate!
You tell this to yourself, “Happiness starts now!” I’ve been working as a pre-wedding conceptor in past couple of months and I really enjoy seeing how two people so much in love with each other.
With that being said, instead of rushing myself to my own wedding, I’d rather tell myself to take my time. I want my wedding to be a lifetime event, I want this to be something worth fighting for, and for that, I need the right man who also shares the same wishes as mine.
I still have to find someone who clearly tells me what he wants, the one who never makes me have to wonder where he stands, the one who will certainly catch me when I fall. And maybe, it takes times until I find him. But that’s okay! Good things take times, do they? Either you are my friend, enemy, or just somebody I know. The choice is yours.

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