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It’s Never Too Late to Find Your Closure

Posted on: June 13, 2016

Have you ever had a very terrifying experience back in the past? That kind of past that makes you refuse just to think about it. You’ve shut down all the things and all memories related to it. You don’t bother to have a closure because you think it will only break your heart any deeper.

I’ve been there. Once. And I don’t want to ever go back there again.

But did yo know? No matter how hard you convince yourself that you’ve moved and that you’re doing just fine, a closure is still the only thing you need for yourself. It’s the only thing that can give you the greatest lesson you can take from your past.

So there I tried to find my closure of something that I have burried many years ago. It’s scary, of course. And apparently I was right; knowing the truth can be as terrifying! It’s like me reopened my own wound. But I was also right; I needed that closure to help me to make decision with my life right at this moment.

Saying hello to the past has helped me to relook at that time to seek what actually went wrong. Helped me to realize what I had left behind. On top of all that, it has helped me to learn from my own mistakes. It has finally stopped me from repeating the same mistakes all over again.

I know it takes courages to seek for closures, but so many other things in life do! We were all born scared to the world and we all cried the first time we saw the life outside the mothers’ wombs, but then it’s our own choices to be brave or keep all the fears inside.

Have courage to find your closure. And it’s okay if it makes you need to look back to the past just to search for your answer. At the end of the day, it’s your own presumptions that gradually kill you inside. Find your closures now! And no, it’s never too late to find it for yourself.

Find your closure, and you will find you.


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Life took me to many unimaginable people. The super kind, the selfless, the brave men, and of course, the mean and rude people, cheaters, liars, hypocrites, extremely arrogant, and all other qualities that got me thinking, “I never thought such people like these do exist!”
But I’ve also come to learn that sometimes, there is a bright side of the darkest people I know. They’re not always good, but they’re not always bad either.
At the end of the day, it helps me to define the people I can bear and the people I can’t stand. And most importantly, it helps me to decide the person I would like to become. I’m not a funny person. I’m not good at mingle with random people. I’m fierce, I’m a straight-talker, I get annoyed easily, and I have this resting b face that makes me look angry all the times. I’m not that kind of person whom people would miss when I’m not around.
But you know what?
I’m okay with all that flaws I have in me. Nobody is perfect, and neither am I. At the same time; everyone on earth is special, and so am I.
I know my worth. I know what I’m very good at. I know what I want and I work hard to make it happen. I’m a go getter and I fight my battles. I’m not an angel, but I’m not a devil either.
I was born to be the very best of myself, and just because I don’t always have what others have, it doens’t make me less as a person inside out. I’m whole just the way I am, and I’m beyond grateful of all that. I know that my career has been a bit of trouble for my personal life. I admit that it feels like a loss to me sometimes, but you know what? I don’t feel sorry about all that, not a even just a little bit.
My career has given me a comfort bed to sleep, taken me to the places I’ve never seen, brought me to the incredible people who end up as my best friends, and most importantly, it has really made my parents proud. I can sleep tight at night knowing that at least, I can support my parents after their retirements.
The way I see it, there’s nothing bad about all that, so why should anybody in my position feel sorry and less proud about their own hard works?
Don’t let anybody make you feel less than who you are. Make yourself and your loved ones proud, and for me, the rest doesn’t matter at all.
Be great, women! Whatever you choose to do for your own life, be great at it and don’t feel sorry for anything good in your life! Happy International Women’s day and stay awesome!

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