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Find Someone Who Loves You Just the Way You Are

Posted on: February 13, 2016

A few days ago, I had a long chat with one of my best friends about his problem with a girl he just knew. Long story short, apparently that new girl thought that my friend was too aggressive. It confused me. It’s not like he texted her many times in a day! In fact, he didn’t always text that girl everyday the entire week! I don’t think it’s too aggressive at all.

Having said that, deep in my heart, initially I wanted to suggest my friend to play cool. I personally find that he looks more attractive when he is calm and cool.

But then I realized… my friend actually deserves someone better than that girl. He deserves someone who embraces him just the way he is. If she can’t accept his effort to take care of her, then it was her loss, not his. I’ve known this guy for years by now, and I also know that the way he takes care of the people he loves is the very best quality in him. Why should he change it just because a girl came and said it was wrong for him to look after her?

So then I said to my friend, it was not his fault, it was just that girl didn’t share the same chemistry with him.

Many people somehow believe that we have to ‘market’ ourselves differently. Act like someone you’re not until you win your crush’s heart. It may have worked well for most cases, but to me, it just sounds so wrong. Find someone who loves you just the way you are, not the way you make them think you are.

Someone who genuinely loves you is someone who’s capable to see the good things in you. Knowing all your flaws doesn’t stop them from falling for you. They don’t see all the things you already have or the things that you don’t have just yet; they see you far beyond that. They have a strong belief that you’re capable to be more than you already are.

Don’t we all want to be with someone who loves us that much? If the answer is yes, then we will never find one unless we show them who we really are. Just be ouselves and let them decide if they want to take a part in our life or let us go.

Find someone who loves you just the way you are, and love them back, just the way they are.


3 Responses to "Find Someone Who Loves You Just the Way You Are"

Quote terakhir kak Rifa, bener2 bikin aku speechless.
Aku setuju bgt, kita seharusnya jd diri sendiri untuk menemukan cinta sejati. Terkadang aku sebal kalo mslnya ada tmn yg mendikte aku ttg bgmn cranya berskp sm gebetanku atau sm org yg kita naksir..

Makasih buat pencerahannya, mulai dr skg, aku akan bnr2 jd diri sendiri tnp hrs berpura2 menjd org lain, toh pada akhrnya soulmate kita akan mnrma kita apa adanya.

Yup, toh pada akhirnya, yang akan awet sama kita ya yang bisa terima kita apa adanya juga. Glad that I can help!

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Life took me to many unimaginable people. The super kind, the selfless, the brave men, and of course, the mean and rude people, cheaters, liars, hypocrites, extremely arrogant, and all other qualities that got me thinking, “I never thought such people like these do exist!”
But I’ve also come to learn that sometimes, there is a bright side of the darkest people I know. They’re not always good, but they’re not always bad either.
At the end of the day, it helps me to define the people I can bear and the people I can’t stand. And most importantly, it helps me to decide the person I would like to become. I’m not a funny person. I’m not good at mingle with random people. I’m fierce, I’m a straight-talker, I get annoyed easily, and I have this resting b face that makes me look angry all the times. I’m not that kind of person whom people would miss when I’m not around.
But you know what?
I’m okay with all that flaws I have in me. Nobody is perfect, and neither am I. At the same time; everyone on earth is special, and so am I.
I know my worth. I know what I’m very good at. I know what I want and I work hard to make it happen. I’m a go getter and I fight my battles. I’m not an angel, but I’m not a devil either.
I was born to be the very best of myself, and just because I don’t always have what others have, it doens’t make me less as a person inside out. I’m whole just the way I am, and I’m beyond grateful of all that. I know that my career has been a bit of trouble for my personal life. I admit that it feels like a loss to me sometimes, but you know what? I don’t feel sorry about all that, not a even just a little bit.
My career has given me a comfort bed to sleep, taken me to the places I’ve never seen, brought me to the incredible people who end up as my best friends, and most importantly, it has really made my parents proud. I can sleep tight at night knowing that at least, I can support my parents after their retirements.
The way I see it, there’s nothing bad about all that, so why should anybody in my position feel sorry and less proud about their own hard works?
Don’t let anybody make you feel less than who you are. Make yourself and your loved ones proud, and for me, the rest doesn’t matter at all.
Be great, women! Whatever you choose to do for your own life, be great at it and don’t feel sorry for anything good in your life! Happy International Women’s day and stay awesome!

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