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When a Man’s Hero Instinct Goes Wrong

Posted on: February 11, 2017

Spoiler alert! This post will tell you a little bit about the newest episodes of The Royals TV series.

I’m really upset with the last two episodes of The Royals season 3. Jasper; my favorite hot bodyguard in this TV show, decided to leave the princess just because of a threat from his own father all together with his insecurities of dating a royal. He did it to protect his girlfriend, for princess’ sake he said, but still, I would never decide to take that way if I were him.

I know that it’s just a drama, but I can totally relate to that kind of situation in the real life. Not that I’m a princess dating a bodyguard, it’s more about a man’s hero instinct that can go into a very wrong direction sometimes. And yes, this writing has something to do with my earlier post. You may want to read that one blog of mine before continuing to read this post.

Sometimes, men say that we deserve someone better. They say that they don’t deserve us. They say that what they do are for our own good. But the way we see it (at least, this is the way I see it), what they do is completely wrong.

Some men have to learn to believe that when we say we love you, we mean it with all our heart. And when we say that we love you, it also means that we can sincerely accept you just the way you are. You and every flaw that you have in you. So if you think that walking away from our lives is actually for our own good, well the truth is, it will only break our heart and leave us wondering what we did so wrong that you took off from us.

At this point, do you still think that what you did to us was a heroic decision?

When I really love somebody, lots and lots of bumpy roads with him is a lot better than one smooth ride without him by my side. Fighting this life with him side by side will take the same amount of efforts for me to move on and heal my heartbreak anyway. Yet somehow, many guys I met back in the past just couldn’t seem to get that. Initially I thought it was just me, but when I saw the same things also happen to some other girls, I started to question, “What’s wrong with (many) guys nowadays?”

Please no offense, guys. Any thoughts? Let me know!


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Life took me to many unimaginable people. The super kind, the selfless, the brave men, and of course, the mean and rude people, cheaters, liars, hypocrites, extremely arrogant, and all other qualities that got me thinking, “I never thought such people like these do exist!”
But I’ve also come to learn that sometimes, there is a bright side of the darkest people I know. They’re not always good, but they’re not always bad either.
At the end of the day, it helps me to define the people I can bear and the people I can’t stand. And most importantly, it helps me to decide the person I would like to become. I’m not a funny person. I’m not good at mingle with random people. I’m fierce, I’m a straight-talker, I get annoyed easily, and I have this resting b face that makes me look angry all the times. I’m not that kind of person whom people would miss when I’m not around.
But you know what?
I’m okay with all that flaws I have in me. Nobody is perfect, and neither am I. At the same time; everyone on earth is special, and so am I.
I know my worth. I know what I’m very good at. I know what I want and I work hard to make it happen. I’m a go getter and I fight my battles. I’m not an angel, but I’m not a devil either.
I was born to be the very best of myself, and just because I don’t always have what others have, it doens’t make me less as a person inside out. I’m whole just the way I am, and I’m beyond grateful of all that. I know that my career has been a bit of trouble for my personal life. I admit that it feels like a loss to me sometimes, but you know what? I don’t feel sorry about all that, not a even just a little bit.
My career has given me a comfort bed to sleep, taken me to the places I’ve never seen, brought me to the incredible people who end up as my best friends, and most importantly, it has really made my parents proud. I can sleep tight at night knowing that at least, I can support my parents after their retirements.
The way I see it, there’s nothing bad about all that, so why should anybody in my position feel sorry and less proud about their own hard works?
Don’t let anybody make you feel less than who you are. Make yourself and your loved ones proud, and for me, the rest doesn’t matter at all.
Be great, women! Whatever you choose to do for your own life, be great at it and don’t feel sorry for anything good in your life! Happy International Women’s day and stay awesome!

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