Guys, You Look Super Hot When You Do All These

Maybe it’s just me, but this is my blog, my thought, and I think… men are super hot when they are doing all the things I write below 😉

Messy hair and a bit cranky

Some guys I know tend to have a messy hair when their days are going rough. I don’t know why but it looks very attractive to me. They look so serious, a bit cranky, and it only makes them even hotter! 

Driving a car

It’s not about a man having a car, it’s merely the way he looks when he’s driving. When I fall for someone who can drive, it really makes them look hot in my eyes. Just don’t ruin my fantasy by swearing to other drivers though. It’s not cool at all, hehehe.

Takes pictures of me patiently and smiles behind his lens

I love photoshoot. Like really really love it! And if I happen to meet someone who knows how to take a good picture of me, oh well, it really makes me feel so lucky! Nothing is more beautiful than seeing him smiling behind his lens when he’s taking a picture of me. 

Knows how to fix my IT problems

I have to admit… I have certain feelings with a programmer or anyone who can help me with my computer problems. It never ceases to awe me how his IT skill can make my life so easier. Seeing my crush very focus with his computer works can really make me fall deeper for him! It makes him look smart and cool!

Looks at me so deeply and he doesn’t look away when I catch him staring at me

It’s a man up to me if he’s bold enough to let me know that he is looking at me at that moment. I always enjoy the warmth I see in his eyes. It’s the best way for me to learn how much he cares about me.

Dare to tell me what I did wrong and how to fix this

Believe it or not, there are not much of people giving me advices on what I should do with my life. It’s not that I need the advice, but a brave man who can do that wisely is very hard to find. A real man tells me what he has in mind, he knows that he doesn’t have to always agree with everything I say and do. That way, he helps me to be a better person, doesn’t he?

He can do what I can’t do and he does something about it

I’m not that kind of girl who often asks someone else’s help. If I can do it myself, I’ll do it myself. Even when I don’t know how to do it, I’ll try to figure it out myself before I ask for some helps. But still… having someone who can crack my problems without being asked can be very helpful! It will instantly make him look like a hero to me.

Help me with the little things

Having said I love it when he helps me with the things I can’t handle myself, I also love it when he takes care of me in the little things in life. Take me something to eat, help me with heavy stuffs, drive me home in the middle of the night… Well, a woman is just a woman regardless how independent she is!

Listens to me carefully and remembers every single story correctly

I’ve come to learn that a man is basically not a good listener, except when he falls for someone. I really love to know that he listened carefully all the stories I used to tell. It makes me feel like he is a perfect match to me!

He’s fighting so hard just to be with me

Many years ago, I let go of someone like this out of my life. If you ask me one biggest mistake I ever did, this must be my number one answer. I used to think that I would still find someone like him, but I’ve started to worry that I was wrong. Nothing is more manly than a man who is willing to do the extra miles just to be with me. Deep in my heart, I still hope that someone, the right one, will come along.

5 Only Things that Matter to Me

I read somewhere in my social media about 5 important matters in a grown up’s life. I read it and I could really connect to every single word in it. I forgot where I exactly I read the quote but I still remember what I want to write and share in this blog. 

Here we go… five things that matter to me in every relationship I have as a grown up!

Integrity

I’m no longer in the mood of having a relationship where I have to doubt every single sentence they say to me. I need to believe that everything they say is true. I need to believe that the relationship is true. No hidden agenda, no lies, not a fake relationship to begin with.

Consistency

I just think that I’m too old to change my mind back and forth like a teenager and I don’t expect such thing in every relationship I have. We should know where we stand, what we want, and where we’re heading to. 

Stability

There will always be the ups and downs in every relationship, but, a grown up is not supposed to have a relationship where somebody stormed out and took off just like none of it mattered to them. People on my age already have too much of people leaving, all that we need are simply the people who are willing to stay.

Loyalty

It’s always comforting to have someone who’s always there in my corner. Having my back. Support me and endorse me even when they disagree. On top of all that, they are the ones who will stick with me even when things between us are not always pretty. It’s a kind of relationship we need to make us feel anything but lonely.

Honesty

A true relationship is built on honesty. I respect and I cherish the people who are bold enough to tell me the truth. The ones who tell me what they have in their minds. The ones who do not mind to be real, to be vulnerable around me. The way I see it, it’s a sign of the highest level of a comforting relationship. It’s the one that can last for a lifetime.