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Unconditional Happiness

Posted on: February 14, 2016

Pernah dengar istilah unconditional love a.k.a cinta tanpa syarat? Kita harus bisa mencintai orang lain dengan tulus tanpa banyak syarat dia harus begini dan dia harus begitu. Nah, gue juga punya istilah ala gue sendiri: unconditional happiness a.k.a kebahagiaan tanpa syarat. Nggak perlu tunggu ini dan tunggu itu hanya untuk bisa ngerasa bahagia.

Dan hari ini, gue kembali membuktikan kalo gue benar bisa tetap hidup bahagia tanpa banyak syarat ini dan itu. Today, I could stay happy even though I didn’t get what I really want to have in this particular day: a Valentine date.

Sebelum gue teruskan, maaf banget ya, buat teman-teman yang tidak merayakan Valentine… I really really respect your point of view. Tapi menurut gue, kalaupun ada yang salah dari perayaan Valentine, yang salah itu prilaku orangnya, bukan event-nya. It’s debatable, I know… but please let us just agree to disagree, okay? 😉

Back to the blog… what makes me feel happy apart from just staying at home all alone all day long? It’s just those simple things in life!

Dimulai dengan nyobain restoran dim sum baru yang rasanya enak banget! Pesan antar pakai Klikeat!

Lalu nonton film dan serial TV kesukaan sambil duduk bersandar di atas tempat tidur, berselimut hangat diiringi suara rintik hujan…

Nulis satu lagi judul blog yang bikin gue bangga banget sama diri gue sendiri, hehehehe… Please pardon my narcissism, ok! 😉

Dapat satu lagi comment di blog yang bikin gue ngerasa senang dan puas dengan blog gue yang hanya ala kadarnya ini…

Dapat kiriman video lucu dari salah satu sahabat yang disertai caption, “Maybe this is the reason why your crush didn’t ask you out today, hahahaha.” And it really made me laugh outloud 😀

Kemudian bertukar comment agak-agak flirty di Path sama sahabat gue yang lainnya… Comment yang bikin gue berpikir, “It looks like I’m a flirting expert! Tapi giliran ngomong sama gebetan, gue speechless berat!”

Dan diakhiri dengan bikin tulisan tentang unconditional happiness ini yang udah bikin gue jadi senyum-senyum sendiri! 😉

See? I’m home alone today, but I’m not lonely at all. I would be very happy if I had a candle light dinner tonight or maybe just a casual lunch would do, but even without it all, I’m okay too. I want to be able to stay happy in all conditions in life, that’s why I mentioned this as an ‘unconditional happiness’, get it now? 🙂

At the end of the day, love is not only about your crush, boyfriend, fiance, or husband. I love my families, my friends, my career, my comfort home, my hobbies, my life! And I think, that’s Valentine is all about: a reminder on how grateful I am for being able to love this much!

So guys… merayakan atau tidak merayakan Valentine, gue sungguh berharap semoga hidup kita selalu dilingkupi kasih sayang dan kebahagiaan, bahkan dalam kondisi terburuk sekalipun.

Have a lovely life, everyone! And please, be happy unconditionally! 🙂


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It’s very important to feel content about our own life. No matter how hard we try, the truth is, we will NEVER get EVERYTHING we want to have in life. I want to have more curves, I want to have a pair of cheekbones and a chin like a supermodel, I want to be married at 30 years old, I want to be a Math expert, I want so many things in life and some of them are just some mission impossible. It’s true that I’m a go getter, but I simply have no time nor resource to pursue everything I want in life. There are some things that I need to live with it probably for the rest of my life. But you know what? I never regret any of that. I would rather count my blessings rather than feeling sorry for my imperfections. I’ve tried to make the very best of every day in my life, and for me, that is way more than enough. I’m happy just the way I am, and I’m thankful for everything I have, everything I don’t have, and everything that I will never have.
Be a better you, for you. Dress up, wear heels, put some make-up on, for you. Live in your dream, be awesome in what you do, especially for you. Learn from your mistakes, get back up from your downfalls, for you. Be kind, be compassionate, also for you. Make yourself proud for being the very best of you, not to please anyone else but you.
Every people has their very own insecurity. They have flaws, failures, they all once did a couple of things they are not proud of. They have one soul crushing events they wish to forget. Their life is not perfect and nor is mine. I am no different with any other person I know. If there’s one thing I do differently, that one thing that many people is reluctant to do, is that I forgive my past. I accept my flaws. I make peace with my guilts and failures. It’s all simply because there’s nothing I can do to change everything that has happened back in my past. What’s gone is gone, I can only decide what I would like to do on the days to come. Rather than drowning in miseries, I moved on. I’ve seen many people turned their problems to a nightmare. They made their worst moments in life even worse than it should be. They pointed fingers, they blamed random innocent people, they pushed people away, they ran off from reality, they did nothing useful for their own life. Some of them even made their personal problems as someone else’s problems for no particular reason. They let their insecurities hurt people who has nothing to do with their downfalls. My life is no better nor easier than anyone else, but at least, I’m trying so hard to make my own life a better place. If I can do it, and so can you!

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