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Unconditional Happiness

Posted on: February 14, 2016

Pernah dengar istilah unconditional love a.k.a cinta tanpa syarat? Kita harus bisa mencintai orang lain dengan tulus tanpa banyak syarat dia harus begini dan dia harus begitu. Nah, gue juga punya istilah ala gue sendiri: unconditional happiness a.k.a kebahagiaan tanpa syarat. Nggak perlu tunggu ini dan tunggu itu hanya untuk bisa ngerasa bahagia.

Dan hari ini, gue kembali membuktikan kalo gue benar bisa tetap hidup bahagia tanpa banyak syarat ini dan itu. Today, I could stay happy even though I didn’t get what I really want to have in this particular day: a Valentine date.

Sebelum gue teruskan, maaf banget ya, buat teman-teman yang tidak merayakan Valentine… I really really respect your point of view. Tapi menurut gue, kalaupun ada yang salah dari perayaan Valentine, yang salah itu prilaku orangnya, bukan event-nya. It’s debatable, I know… but please let us just agree to disagree, okay? 😉

Back to the blog… what makes me feel happy apart from just staying at home all alone all day long? It’s just those simple things in life!

Dimulai dengan nyobain restoran dim sum baru yang rasanya enak banget! Pesan antar pakai Klikeat!

Lalu nonton film dan serial TV kesukaan sambil duduk bersandar di atas tempat tidur, berselimut hangat diiringi suara rintik hujan…

Nulis satu lagi judul blog yang bikin gue bangga banget sama diri gue sendiri, hehehehe… Please pardon my narcissism, ok! 😉

Dapat satu lagi comment di blog yang bikin gue ngerasa senang dan puas dengan blog gue yang hanya ala kadarnya ini…

Dapat kiriman video lucu dari salah satu sahabat yang disertai caption, “Maybe this is the reason why your crush didn’t ask you out today, hahahaha.” And it really made me laugh outloud 😀

Kemudian bertukar comment agak-agak flirty di Path sama sahabat gue yang lainnya… Comment yang bikin gue berpikir, “It looks like I’m a flirting expert! Tapi giliran ngomong sama gebetan, gue speechless berat!”

Dan diakhiri dengan bikin tulisan tentang unconditional happiness ini yang udah bikin gue jadi senyum-senyum sendiri! 😉

See? I’m home alone today, but I’m not lonely at all. I would be very happy if I had a candle light dinner tonight or maybe just a casual lunch would do, but even without it all, I’m okay too. I want to be able to stay happy in all conditions in life, that’s why I mentioned this as an ‘unconditional happiness’, get it now? 🙂

At the end of the day, love is not only about your crush, boyfriend, fiance, or husband. I love my families, my friends, my career, my comfort home, my hobbies, my life! And I think, that’s Valentine is all about: a reminder on how grateful I am for being able to love this much!

So guys… merayakan atau tidak merayakan Valentine, gue sungguh berharap semoga hidup kita selalu dilingkupi kasih sayang dan kebahagiaan, bahkan dalam kondisi terburuk sekalipun.

Have a lovely life, everyone! And please, be happy unconditionally! 🙂


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We can’t control whatever life throws at us, but we definitely can control our reaction toward anything that can possibly happen to us.
It’s our decision whether or not we set ourselves free from miseries.
It’s our action that makes our life either colorful or plain boring.
It’s our behavior that leads us to feel merry or lonely.
And it’s certainly our own choices that bring us happiness in life.
Life is too short to be lonely, unhappy, and to be less proud of who we are.
Make the most of every day in your life, be happy with the little and the big things, make your life not only worth living, but also worth to celebrate!
You tell this to yourself, “Happiness starts now!” I’ve been working as a pre-wedding conceptor in past couple of months and I really enjoy seeing how two people so much in love with each other.
With that being said, instead of rushing myself to my own wedding, I’d rather tell myself to take my time. I want my wedding to be a lifetime event, I want this to be something worth fighting for, and for that, I need the right man who also shares the same wishes as mine.
I still have to find someone who clearly tells me what he wants, the one who never makes me have to wonder where he stands, the one who will certainly catch me when I fall. And maybe, it takes times until I find him. But that’s okay! Good things take times, do they? Either you are my friend, enemy, or just somebody I know. The choice is yours.

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