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Girls’ Deepest Secrets

Posted on: August 26, 2016

Banyak teman cowok yang bilang ke gue, cewek itu ribet. Padahal sebetulnya, pola pikir cewek pada umumnya itu sangat mudah untuk ditebak. Kenapa? Karena pada umumnya, cewek itu pola pikirnya sederhana: kami mempercayai apa yang kita lihat serta apa yang kita dengar. Ada beberapa cewek yang lebih cuek atau sebaliknya, lebih analitis daripada cewek pada umumnya, tapi tetap saja, ujung-ujungnya cewek itu hanya menafsirkan apa yang terlihat mata serta apa yang didengar telinga.

Berikut ini contoh penafsiran di benak perempuan atas prilaku-prilaku orang yang kita sukai.  Mungkin, teori gue ini tidak 100% benar, tapi setidaknya, apa yang gue tulis ini adalah murni isi pemikiran gue sendiri yang kebetulan juga sama persis dengan cewek-cewek lain yang gue kenal.


Apa kesamaan dari semua hal yang gue sebutkan di atas? Kesamaannya adalah: cewek cenderung lebih menurunkan harapan dan ekspektasinya. Kita lebih memilih untuk melihat the worst scenario-nya. Kalau pun di awal kita masih sok-sok mencoba berpikiran positif, jika prilaku yang sama terus berulang beberapa kali setelahnya, maka kita akan mulai berhenti menghibur diri dan lebih memilih untuk move on saja. Kenapa demikian? Supaya kita tidak kecewa dan patah hati semakin dalam!

Gue tahu bahwa kadang-kadang, cowok punya alasannya tersendiri, tapi kalian juga harus hati-hati! Bisa-bisa malah salah strategi yang hanya akan menjauhkan kita dari kalian (kecuali jika memang itu yang kalian inginkan). Karena seberani-beraninya perempuan, kita cenderung lebih penakut untuk urusan cinta-cintaan. Tidak aneh jika cukup banyak cewek yang saat harus memilih di antara dua cowok, mereka akan memilih cowok yang terlihat lebih jelas atau lebih serius menunjukkan rasa cintanya.

Nah, masihkah kalian berpikiran kalo cewek itu ribet jalan pikirannya?


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I used to read a quote written by my former lecture saying that even a bad decision would always be much better than no decision at all. It reminded me of the decisions I put on hold and I asked myself, “What prevents me from making all those decisions?” I could instantly listed down many personal reasons that didn’t even sound good to myself. So there I made a couple of decisions; the good ones and the bad ones, and apparently it was so true: even bad decision was still better than no decision at all. First of all, it helped me to move on. I no longer waited for this and that; I made decisions and I started to make the actions. It also gave me a peace of mind knowing that I owed nothing to anyone, not even to myself. And most importantly, all those decisions made me learn, notably the bad ones. It’s not that I intentionally made a bad one, but well, how did I know my decision was bad until I gave it a try? Ever since the day I decided to stop putting my decisions on hold, my life felt a lot lighter and I have never been more proud of myself. Other people might not be happy with my decisions, but I only do what I’ve got to do and they can’t blame me for having courage to do the things they’re not willing to do. If it holds me back and nobody wants to make the call, then let me do the honor. It’s actually that simple, and again, it sets me free.
My biggest career goal is always running my own business. I have been an entrepreneur even since I was a seven years old. I was never hesitate everytime I saw an opportunity to earn some cash to buy toys and comic books. Graduating from college and starting my first corporate job has stopped me from doing my own business. I was too busy to do something else beside my main job. I tried to run a small jewelry business but then I got bored. I came to learn that if I want to start a business, I have to do something bigger. But of course, a bigger scale own business will also require a bigger effort! The comfort of corporate job made me decide to postpone starting a new business until at some point, it was no longer comforting to me. I still remember one night I went home feeling extremely upset with my boss and I just told myself, “I can’t do this forever. I can do much better than working for a jerk.” Right at that moment, I decided to start my biggest dream: starting my own business. Not so long after that, @thelenstory was born.
There is this one little secret about @thelenstory. There was one particular guy who made me fall deeper with photography. He was so talented he could make an old dirty lamp look beautifully glow in his pictures. I still remember that day on a boat, he took pictures of me and he smiled behind his lens. That kind of smile that made me feel the prettiest girl on earth. I didn’t know why but I just loved seeing this guy holding his camera. I even still loved it when he took pictures of me with his grumpy face! At the end of the day, The Lens Story is way more than just a girl who fell in love. The ups and downs, and all lifetime savings that I’ve spent have been the greatest leap of faith I’ve ever taken in my entire life. That one guy from my past was just a starting point. He was my inspiration, he made me believe that there were many hidden talents like him out there and I would be more than happy to help them start their professional career in photography. That was the very beginning story on how my start-up was born, and to me, that will always be one of my favorite stories to tell.

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