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How do I Know that I Like Someone New?

Posted on: May 16, 2015

Belum lama ini, gue mengajukan pertanyaan sederhana ke salah satu teman gue, “How do you know that you like this guy?” Pertanyaan yang kemudian, diam-diam gue tanyakan pada diri gue sendiri. Bagaiamana dengan diri gue sendiri? Bagaimana gue bisa tahu bahwa gue suka sama seseorang?

Jika pertannyaan yang sama diajukan kepada gue, berikut ini jawaban gue:

  1. Gejala paling awal: gue jadi sering mikirin dia;
  2. Gue mulai nervous kalo ada dia. Hal-hal yang bisa dengan mudah gue lakukan dengan orang lain, seperti say hi duluan, akan jadi terasa lebih sulit dan bikin nervous;
  3. Gue jadi bersemangat kalo tahu akan ketemu sama dia;
  4. Gue mulai penasaran sama cewek-cewek di sekitar dia. Itu pacarnya bukan ya? Giliran bukan cowok yang gue suka, belum tentu gue tahu mereka itu single atau taken…
  5. I will be very curious when he’s not around. Mesti nahan-nahan diri buat enggak tanya-tanya ke orang lain, “Dia di mana ya?”
  6. His opinion does matter to me. Gue jadi suka berpikiran, “What will he think if I wear this dress?” atau “What will he think if say this or do that?”
  7. Dia jadi kelihatan lebih lucu di mata gue. Jokes yang nggak lucu-lucu banget aja bisa bikin gue sampe senyum-senyum sendiri!
  8. Tahap terakhir di mana gue paling yakin kalo gue suka sama seseorang adalah saat mulai terlintas di benak gue, “How does it feel to be his girlfriend?”

And what about you? How do you know that you’re in like with someone new?


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Life took me to many unimaginable people. The super kind, the selfless, the brave men, and of course, the mean and rude people, cheaters, liars, hypocrites, extremely arrogant, and all other qualities that got me thinking, “I never thought such people like these do exist!”
But I’ve also come to learn that sometimes, there is a bright side of the darkest people I know. They’re not always good, but they’re not always bad either.
At the end of the day, it helps me to define the people I can bear and the people I can’t stand. And most importantly, it helps me to decide the person I would like to become. I’m not a funny person. I’m not good at mingle with random people. I’m fierce, I’m a straight-talker, I get annoyed easily, and I have this resting b face that makes me look angry all the times. I’m not that kind of person whom people would miss when I’m not around.
But you know what?
I’m okay with all that flaws I have in me. Nobody is perfect, and neither am I. At the same time; everyone on earth is special, and so am I.
I know my worth. I know what I’m very good at. I know what I want and I work hard to make it happen. I’m a go getter and I fight my battles. I’m not an angel, but I’m not a devil either.
I was born to be the very best of myself, and just because I don’t always have what others have, it doens’t make me less as a person inside out. I’m whole just the way I am, and I’m beyond grateful of all that. I know that my career has been a bit of trouble for my personal life. I admit that it feels like a loss to me sometimes, but you know what? I don’t feel sorry about all that, not a even just a little bit.
My career has given me a comfort bed to sleep, taken me to the places I’ve never seen, brought me to the incredible people who end up as my best friends, and most importantly, it has really made my parents proud. I can sleep tight at night knowing that at least, I can support my parents after their retirements.
The way I see it, there’s nothing bad about all that, so why should anybody in my position feel sorry and less proud about their own hard works?
Don’t let anybody make you feel less than who you are. Make yourself and your loved ones proud, and for me, the rest doesn’t matter at all.
Be great, women! Whatever you choose to do for your own life, be great at it and don’t feel sorry for anything good in your life! Happy International Women’s day and stay awesome!

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