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Don’t Hurt Someone Too Much

Posted on: October 9, 2016

Honestly, I used to think that it was okay to let out my rage as much as I want. I must have a good reason to be angry, and I know that deep down, I’m a good person. I am truthful and I never have any intention to harm anyone else. Nobody is perfect, and rage control just happens to be my imperfection. On top of that, being brave, honest, and outspoken has a price to pay and I simply think I can’t always please everyone at everytime. I truly believe that people who really love me will always forgive me and at the end of the day, they will always find a way back to me anyway.

I kept thinking that I had done the right thing until I saw my own thought from the opposite perspective. One thing led to another, I got hurt, and I couldn’t believe that it had just happened to myself. It broke my heart, it made me feel like I’m a total s*** as a person, and I couldn’t stop wondering what I did so wrong that made me deserve to be treated like that. The worst part is that the more I try to let it go and pretend that everything is okay, the more I put pressures on myself and the more I got hurt inside.

At that point, I realize… The truth is, there’s never a good reason to hurt somebody. There’s no good deed that we did that give us right to hurt people that deep. Having said that nobody is perfect, it doesn’t necessarily mean that we’ve got an excuse to break someone else’s heart. We can’t expect that we can go mad and people will always come back! It’s true that we have a right to say whatever we want to say, but the people whom we hurt, they have every right to refuse to take us back in their life.

Don’t take someone’s pain for granted, because sometimes, they just don’t know how to go back from their own pain. The wound may be healed, but they will never forget how we used to make them feel. Things may never be the same again, even if they try, even if they want to. Don’t hurt someone so much it’s unbearable, especially, when they actually deserve to be treated a lot better than that.


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Life took me to many unimaginable people. The super kind, the selfless, the brave men, and of course, the mean and rude people, cheaters, liars, hypocrites, extremely arrogant, and all other qualities that got me thinking, “I never thought such people like these do exist!”
But I’ve also come to learn that sometimes, there is a bright side of the darkest people I know. They’re not always good, but they’re not always bad either.
At the end of the day, it helps me to define the people I can bear and the people I can’t stand. And most importantly, it helps me to decide the person I would like to become. I’m not a funny person. I’m not good at mingle with random people. I’m fierce, I’m a straight-talker, I get annoyed easily, and I have this resting b face that makes me look angry all the times. I’m not that kind of person whom people would miss when I’m not around.
But you know what?
I’m okay with all that flaws I have in me. Nobody is perfect, and neither am I. At the same time; everyone on earth is special, and so am I.
I know my worth. I know what I’m very good at. I know what I want and I work hard to make it happen. I’m a go getter and I fight my battles. I’m not an angel, but I’m not a devil either.
I was born to be the very best of myself, and just because I don’t always have what others have, it doens’t make me less as a person inside out. I’m whole just the way I am, and I’m beyond grateful of all that. I know that my career has been a bit of trouble for my personal life. I admit that it feels like a loss to me sometimes, but you know what? I don’t feel sorry about all that, not a even just a little bit.
My career has given me a comfort bed to sleep, taken me to the places I’ve never seen, brought me to the incredible people who end up as my best friends, and most importantly, it has really made my parents proud. I can sleep tight at night knowing that at least, I can support my parents after their retirements.
The way I see it, there’s nothing bad about all that, so why should anybody in my position feel sorry and less proud about their own hard works?
Don’t let anybody make you feel less than who you are. Make yourself and your loved ones proud, and for me, the rest doesn’t matter at all.
Be great, women! Whatever you choose to do for your own life, be great at it and don’t feel sorry for anything good in your life! Happy International Women’s day and stay awesome!

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