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Antara Kata-kata dan Tindakan, Mana yang Lebih Penting?

Posted on: October 1, 2016

Awalnya, gue tipe orang yang meyakini bahwa action speaks louder than words. Percuma banyak janji ini-itu jika tidak ada realisasinya. Percuma bilang sayang jika tidak ada wujud nyatanya. Dan percuma berteori macam-macam jika prakteknya tidak pernah bisa. Tapi akhir-akhir ini, gue malah berpikiran bahwa sebetulnya, kata-kata juga tidak kalah pentingnya dalam membangun suatu hubungan, khususnya, romantic relationship.

Tindakan tanpa kata-kata bisa diartikan macam-macam. Bisa jadi, hanya baik sebagai teman. Siapa yang tahu jika tidak pernah ada kata-kata yang terucap? Tidak ada kata-kata, sama dengan tidak ada janji. Tidak ada komitmen. Bisa dengan mudah disangkal. Bisa dengan mudah berubah tanpa perlu repot-repot ada penjelasan, tanpa perlu ada pertanggungjawaban.

Kata-kata tanpa tindakan sama artinya dengan janji-janji palsu, dan tindakan tanpa ada kata-kata juga bisa sama saja dengan harapan palsu. Gue jadi belajar pentingnya keseimbangan antara lisan dengan tindakan. Kata-kata dengan tindakan melengkapi satu sama lainnya, dan tidak ada yang dapat memberikan rasa aman melebihi kombinasi dari keduanya.

When you really love somebody, tell them, show them, and put your very best effort to make it happen. Be brave enough to commit, be bold enough to say it. On the other side, don’t put your hopes up until it gets real. You may be wrong unless he says it, and he may be wrong unless he shows it with his efforts. 

Jadi? Mana yang lebih penting? Kata-kata atau tindakan? Keduanya sama-sama penting. Kata-kata tidak melulu harus bilang “aku cinta kamu”, tindakan tidak melulu harus datang dengan membawa seikat bunga, bentuknya bisa apa saja, yang penting jelas bentuknya dan bukan sesuatu yang masih harus diterka-terka.

I’ve come to learn that real love is crystal clear. Real love is being said and done. Otherwise, maybe, he’s just not that into you.


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