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Kenapa Bad Boy (Tidak Lagi) Tampak Menarik?

Posted on: September 4, 2016

Waktu masih lebih muda dulu (ngucapin kalimat ini bikin gue ngerasa tua, hehehe), gue sering beranggapan bad boy atau playboy atau player itu menarik. Kenapa? Karena mereka pintar mencuri hati perempuan, mulutnya manis, banyak akalnya, dan terasa menantang jika akhirnya gue bisa menaklukan mereka.

TAPI, lain dulu lain sekarang. Bad boy sudah tidak lagi tampak menarik di mata gue. Kenapa demikian? Berikut ini daftar alasan dari diri gue sendiri.

  1. Mulut mereka memang manis, tapi manisnya bukan sama gue saja. Jadi nggak berasa istimewa!
  2. Jokes ala bad boy sudah tidak lagi terdengar lucu di telinga gue. Saat lihat pria-pria beristri bikin lelucon seperti itu, gue malah sebal melihatnya! Gue berpikiran, “Gimana perasaan istrinya ya?”
  3. Mereka pintar menghadapi perempuan? Tentu saja! ‘Jam terbangnya’ sudah tinggi! Bayangan bahwa gue hanya cewek ke sekian buat dia bikin gue ngerasa rugi, hehehehe;
  4. Gue malas ‘bersaing’ dengan begitu banyak cewek dari masa lalunya;
  5. Karakter tidak mudah untuk diubah. Sekarang bisa berubah, tapi saat nanti keadaan sudah mulai menjadi sulit, kemungkinan untuk kembali ke old habit tidak akan pernah hilang seutuhnya;
  6. Gue enggak mau menghabiskan seumur hidup gue mengkhawatirkan kesetiaan dia. Cuma bikin hidup jadi nggak tenang!
  7. Bad boy itu banyak tantangannya? Oh, come on! Hidup itu sendiri sudah banyak rintangannya! Cowok yang gue yakini bisa setia mendampingi melewati masa-masa sulit itu tampak jauh lebih menarik untuk gue saat ini;
  8. Gue ingin mendapatkan pasangan yang bisa membuat gue jadi lebih baik daripada sebelumnya, bukan sebaliknya;
  9. What if someday his karma pays him back?
  10. Dalam Islam, perempuan baik-baik untuk pria baik-baik. Period.

Ada obrolan dengan seorang sahabat lama yang membuat gue menyadari hal ini. Setelah dewasa, gue justru semakin menghargai pentingnya kesetiaan, loyalitas, dan komitmen. Kebutuhan akan rasa aman nyatanya tumbuh lebih kuat daripada sekedar euforia belaka.

Gue menyukai saat menyadari gue ini istimewa untuk seseorang lainnya. Gue tidak lagi tersanjung dan tersipu-sipu hanya karena seseorang dengan mudahnya bilang, “You look pretty today.” Every girl looks pretty to him today anyway.

Gue menyukai saat tahu perhatian yang dia tunjukan (dalam bentuk perbuatan!) hanya dia berikan untuk gue saja.

Gue menyukai rasa tenang bahwa dia bukan tipe orang yang senang tebar pesona ke mana-mana.

When I’m in love, he’s the center of my attention, and there’s nothing better than having the same attention from the one whom I really love.

Pesan gue untuk bad boy?

You guys are too getting older! Don’t wait for someone to come and change you! Just change yourself so that you deserve her; a fine girl, a good one, to stay with you for the rest of your life.

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